We / I started implementing independent playtime into our day today. J is fairly good at entertaining herself, but we want her to start getting used to playing by herself, without looking for Mommy or Daddy to play with. I'm following the babywise method, which advises starting with around 10 minutes and using a timer. J goes into her bedroom, surrounded by all of her fun toys, the gate goes up, timer goes on and off she goes.... if only it were that smooth! Today (Day #1) she stood at the gate and screamed the entire time. When the timer went off, I went in, and very happily talked to her and looked at her toys with her.
This can take some time, but I'm hopeful it will work out well!
** Note: We first started I.P on Monday and in her room. Wed. we switched to in a pack-n-play and by Friday she was ok with it. J still gave out a few screeches here and there, but she mostly just played and walked around the pack-n-play. As soon as she is good for the full 10min, I will extend her to 15, and on from there.