Monday, October 29, 2012

Hurricane Sandy

Where to begin.....
Hurricane Sandy has rocked our world.  Something we thought would be a passing storm, possibly one that caused our electric to go out for a few hours has left us homeless, neighborhoodless and for so many, caused them to loose almost everything.   Let the story begin:

Sunday Oct 28th- Chris and I were wrapping up a relaxing weekend away out on the Northfork of Long Island.  We had been hearing reports of the impending Hurricane Sandy, but after evacuating for Hurricane Irene, we decided we'd ride this one out.   We picked up the kids at my Moms and heard that NYC was shutting down the transit system as of 7pm that Sunday night.  Picking up 4 cans of soup from my mom, we headed back into the city.  We arrived around 6:30pm and Chris rushed around to any open stores to pick up some "essentials" for the house.  Stores were crowded with groups of 20 somethings picking up cases of beer, and maybe a bag of chips.  Obviously we weren't the only ones who were riding this one out. 

Monday Oct 29th- Dawned a bit gray and windy.  Chris's office was closed for the day and Jocelyn and I headed up to Duane Reade that was still open and picked up some more essentials- nail polish and some candles.  I didn't buy too many though and I didn't like the scents they offered.  Again, a lot of people milling around buying candy bars or chips.  The beer aisle was empty, but plenty of food on the shelves.   The Superintendent of our building called around 11am letting us know he was shutting down the elevator until after the storm. 
The wind started picking up during the day and the 4 of us tried to walk over to the river to see how high it was getting, but were turned away by police stationed along the waterfront.  J's hat blew right off her head and the wind almost knocked us down.  We decided we'd spend the rest of the day inside. 

Enjoying some dance party and hanging out- no idea what was about to occur
We put the kids down to sleep right before 7pm, and as we came back into the living room, we saw water creeping up the alley way next to our building.  We had been warned by Con Ed that they would shut down power if the streets flooded to protect the power grid.  I quickly emailed my girlfriends in the area letting them know some minor flooding had started and to expect electricity to be turned off.  Within 2 minutes, the lights flickered and went off. 
Chris wanted to go see what the front of the building looked like (it faced the river) and headed down the stairs with a flashlight to take a look.   I stood out on the balcony and watched the water go from trickling down the alley way, to rushing onto Water street and a quickly increasing rate. 
Chris was back up stairs within 5-10 mins and said the water had reached our first step, and had begun to flood the basement.  He took a video of it coming into the laundry room at a very fast rate.   I grabbed the flashlight and headed downstairs. By the time I reached 6 flights down, the water had reached the 3rd out of 4 steps.  It had broken the lobby doors glass and was rising fast.  One of the women on the first floor, Susan, was still down there and I was able to convince her that it was time to leave.  We went into her apartment to grab her cell phone and keys and she showed me how she had almost everything off the floor.  As we left her apartment, the water started gushing through the lobby door and up from the basement door at the same time.  Within seconds the lobby floor was flooded and rising fast. 
Lobby Door.  Very thick glass that was shattered like it was nothing.
Susan went to an apartment on the 5th floor and I headed upstairs.  Chris was out on the balcony watching the water now flowing down Water street, breaking glass and beginning to throw items in the stores around.    Jenny lived in an apartment down the hall from us that faced the water and from her window we watched SUV's spin around in the water that reached over it's roofs and water break the glass of the AIG building.  Back out on our balcony, the sound of the wind whipping down the blocks was a sound we will never forget, nor will we forget the feeling of utter dread as we watched the waters continue to rise. We didn't realize it then, but waters would reach 8 feet on the streets below.  To us, 6 floors up, it just looked like an ocean below. 
We watched security workers in the buildings across from us



We watched this SUV twist and twirl around in the water. Tossed around like it was a toy.  Amazing, that by daylight, it just looks like a mis-parked car.   The first floor of our building is at least 4 feet from ground level, and the water came up 4 feet inside the lobby, for a total of 8 feet. 
The water never got above the NY Sports Club written on the windows across the street and after a few hours of agonizing over what was happening around us, and wondering how our family was faring, we crashed into our beds around mid-night. 

Morning dawned very gray and windy and we were anxious to get outside to see what damage had occurred.  Just from our balcony, we could see how the stores blow had fared, and it didn't look good for our neighborhood. 
We bundled the kids up and started the walk down the 6 flights of stairs in pitch black.  There is nothing like walking down stairs in blackness so think you can't even see your hand in front of you.  Very sobering. 
8 foot water marks down on Paris Cafe
Upon reaching the lobby, we were hit with the smell of mud, the feeling of moisture and the sight of destruction.  The lobby was full of mud and the poor people who lived on the first floor had their apartments completely ruined.   Walking down Front Street towards the Seaport was at first, almost exciting.  We were anxious to see what happened, but the feeling quickly turned to dis-belief and then complete sorry as we met shop and restaurant owners that we knew that were just staring at their life's work in ruin.  It still brings tears to my eyes. 
Barbarini.  Locally owned, an Italian grocery and restaurant, completely destroyed.  It was so heart breaking to watch the owner in tears that I couldn't bring myself to photograph any of it except for the outside. 
The inside of the Coach store.  Merchandise thrown about all over the floor. 

The smashed windows of Superdry, also on Front Street (our St)

It almost appears that Brookstone went unscathed, until you realize there is no window there in the front.  Notice the sandbags.  Would have worked if there was only a foot or two of water.

 

Water powerful enough to take down light poles

The inside of Aresoles.  Seaweed hanging off the shoes.

Fulton Street- South Street Seaport.  The surging water broke every stores windows and merchandise and clothes could be found strewn all over the streets.
Chris standing at the water line on one of the buildings- a touch over 6 feet.

Clothing strewn about on window sills from Anne Taylor

The front window completely gone at this local coffee shop

A bench that normally would be on the waters edge, found 3 blocks away.  Again, the force of the water was amazing.

Some of the windows we listened to smash

One of the last deli's in our area to close the night of the hurricane.  They stayed open so the security workers in the buildings would have a place to get hot food out.  Completely flooded out. 

These stairs led into the basement level of New York Sports club where the locker and weight rooms would be found.  Water right up to the top. 

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Albany- Maslowsky's

 We headed up to Albany for a long planned and much anticipated visit with Lil D, Craig and fam.  Fall foliage was in full bloom, so it was a gorgeous time to be up there, and we also got to see their new house- beautiful!
The kids had a blast together- Karter and Nola are absolute sweet hearts and J had a great time playing princess with Nola and just running around like a looney with Karter.  Burton and Lional had some fun in their own doggie way and the rest of us got to catch up. 

Nothing says fun like a 7am dance party!  Gangam style!

One the few pics of Shea.  He wasn't feeling all that great so slept through most of it

Headed over to a farm where these fake chickens were actually the only animals the kids saw! Not that they cared- way to much fun to be had doing other things!

The jumping pillow!! Awesome!! Only 10 kids allowed on it at at time, and then they jump like crazy!!

Getting ready for the Caterpillar hunt.  Jocelyn decided to take the 4 wheel drive vehicle. Too bad her knees didn't quite fit.

 

Daddy's love their little girls

Also at the farm- duck races!

In the woods around their house

Searching for those elusive caterpillars
Fun fun!

Finally found one! All that "clicking" paid off

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Shea- 4.5 months- Things we love

Shea is growing so quickly and we were just talking last night how we can't believe he's almost 5 months!
Some of the special things about him that we love so much:

- How content he is.  Shea is such a happy, easy-going baby and will happily lay on the mat (tummy down) for over 30 mins, or in the bouncy seat for the same.  As long as he has someone around him, he's as happy as a clam!

- Loves to "talk".  We'll be out walking and he'll be in the front pack, and he'll just start "talking".  It's such a nice, comforting sound.

- He has just started to figure out how to use his hands and grab, and is so proud of himself when he successfully grabs a toy that is hanging in front of him.

- Shea's laugh.  He has a great one and is quick to use it.  Tickles, funny faces or just making eye contact and smiling- he'll give you a big smile and laugh back.

- How solid he is.  Even when he was born, the boy felt solid.  No fear of him breaking- he feels like he can hold up to a lot.

- Catch him before he gets too tired and he'll happily sit in your arms listening to you read a book to him. 

-360's.  Shea is a mover.  We place him down on the floor for some tummy time and when we look back a minute later, he's done a 180 and is now 2 feet across the floor.  It's a type of catapiller crawl / scootch that gets him moving. 

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Monday, October 15, 2012

NY Botanical Gardens

 Chris had his annual trip to Napslo for the beginning part of the week, so upon his return he took a day off of work to spend time with the family.  Since it was a beautiful fall day, we decided to head up to the NYC Botanical Gardens, a place J and I hadn't been since she was less then a year old.

Jocelyn loves flowers and loves to smell and know the names of each of them.
 


The enterence to the Children's portion


Shea 4.5 months, Jocelyn almost 3

Our baby boy

Our baby girl!

Daddy's 36th Birthday

Happy 36th!

There was a histerical video that goes along with these cupcakes- J added a little extra love to them all while helping her Dad blow them out.  Chris reading his homemade card from Jocelyn

Monday, October 8, 2012

pics

Bunny Rabbit Baby!

The sleeping game with Avery - one of the last warm days in October

Grant's Third Birthday party at the Queens Meadow Farm



Thursday, October 4, 2012

J'isms

Some amusing statements that come from our two year old daughter:
"Mommy, you don't treat people like that.  You don't take food from little girls." after having her plate removed from her for spitting.

" I'm a naked baby" - running around the house before bath in her frog towel

"Daddy, which do you like, donut or a cookie?" driving with Daddy and passing a Dunkin Donuts.

"Can we have a dance party with the roof open?"  A daily occurrence in the car-  AKA- play black eyed peas

" So Mom/ Dad, how was work? How was your day?" As we sit down at the table for breakfast or a snack.

" Can I have some chap stick?" Everyday, all the time.  She's addicted
"I go to Disney when I'm five"  The dream she holds onto. 

"That's not a monster hug Dad, I need a MONSTER hug"  and this requires growling in her ears.

"The bunny clock is awake!" the clock that is her morning alarm.

I walk into her room holding a wooden spoon from cooking. "Mommy, what are you cooking?" "I'm sauteing onions and green peppers" I answer.  She takes a sniff "and celery".  She was correct.  The girl has a super powered nose.

- " Look at my fancy dancy pants!" 

- I usually have her clothes set out in the morning before school to help move things along.  This particular morning, the outfit was cute, but did not include anything 'pink'.  This was much to Jocelyn's chagrin.  She repeatedly asked to wear something else and was only slightly placated when I pointed out that her shoes had some pink flowers on them.  Upon arriving back home from school (7 hours later) she promptly told me "mom, I need to change, these pants aren't comfortable (they were leggings... doesn't get more comfortable then that." 
I said OK, and she ran into her room, grabbed a pair of striped pants and came running back out "look mom, they're PINK!"   oh dear...



Hemangioma

Shea was born with a birthmark about the 2-3 inches long and 2 inches wide on the side of his head.  For the first 6 weeks it was nothing to be concerned about as it was flat and didn't bother him.  Around the six week mark it began to raise up and at our 2 month pediatrician apt, we were told she thought it might be a hemangioma and we should get it checked out.  We were recommended to the Vascular Birthmark Institute which turns out is one of the best clinics in the country in dealing with these and other vascular issues in children.

It was confirmed that it was indeed a hemangioma, but that there really wasn't to much to be concerned about as it wasn't restricting his breathing or sight (many of them often do).  We began a topical ointment twice daily, Timolol, and we were happy to just wait and see if it improved.  The spot began to gray in areas which was a sign of healing, but it also began to ulcerate / scab.  These became painful for Shea and if we even grazed them he would scream in pain.  At his 3 month check up we spoke with Dr. Blei of the VBI and she confirmed that the medication wasn't causing the ulcerations but began to speak about using an oral medication.  We were hesitant at the time just because of his age, and decided to wait it out and see if they began to heal on their own.

Last night we sent her a weekly picture of his spot and she requested to see him.  The ulcerations had begun to spread and now covered about 40% of the hermangioma and were bleeding.  The bleeding wasn't continuous, but was still concerning.

We headed up there this morning and decided that the best course of action would be the oral medication- propranolol.  Although the idea of giving medication didn't sit all that well with us, we decided it was better then the scabbing becoming infected or causing more balding on his head (anywhere it scabs, hair won't grow in the future.)

After meeting with Dr. Blei, we shot across town to the cardiologist to get his heart checked out (they can't give this medication to anyone with heart problems). They found a slight murmur, but the Dr. said it would work it self out and wasn't concerning.
5 hours later, we walked out of the last doctor, completely depleted of all energy and we were all ready for a nap.

So the treatment begins tomorrow.  He'll receive the medicine twice daily with his feedings and we should see results within a week or so.

10/7- update- We are very glad we started Shea on the oral meds.  That same day we started him on it, his hemangioma began to bleed more.  It was only just droplets of blood, but began to stream blood.  If we hadn't already seen the doctor and started the treatment, we would have been panicking.  We hope to see some real changes soon. 

10/17- update- It's been almost 2.5 weeks on the propranolol and we've already seen some real change.  The bleeding stopped after about 3 days of the meds and the hemangioma is really beginning to show some real change.  It has flattened out and begun to whiten. The scab is still present and unfortunately caked with dried blood (not a nice smell) but we're just waiting for the scab to fall off.
Shea does not like taking his meds (fights it a bit), but we've started putting it in his bottle (the first 2ozs) to make sure he's getting it all. 
2.5 weeks of using the propranolol.

Monday, October 1, 2012

Taquapausha

Chris had his Ragnar race this past weekend (196 miles, 12 people, 2 days- Saratoga to Lake Placid), so we headed out to my moms.  The girls requested a visit to Taquapausha, the local animal preserve and we had a really good time seeing the animals and playing around. 

The girls each got a clip board and erase marker for their scavanger hunt


Checking out the snakes

Our little scientists

The great little reading nest! Love how Piper is right in there with the big girls now!

Mima broke out the big-girl bike.  Logan did very well on it (although requested some training wheels)

Jocelyn much prefered the power of Mima pushing (notice no feet on the wheels)

Getting our crazies out!

Shea- 4 months- loves watching his cousins!

Hanging with Pop-pop

We'll get these Princess waves down pat one day!